Around this time last year, with Josh's prompting, I decided to exercise my right to happiness. Since then, I've exercised the shit out of that right! Just kidding. It's been a journey filled with ups and downs, and I've learned about myself.
In no way am I advocating for the idea that "it's all about you" or that happiness is the most important thing in life, but sometimes doing a couple little things a day can really improve your mood and outlook. For me, it also helps keep things in perspective.
Here's my list of ways I pursue happiness (and pictures of some of my favorite things):
1. Greet and pet Tia first thing when I get home
2. When Josh gets home, I stop what I'm doing and hug him and make eye contact
3. Sit on my porch and drink a glass of wine when I get home from work
4. Buy fancy cheese and eat a small piece a day (especially good with that glass of wine!)
5. See Bubbie, even if it means cancelling plans with humans
6. Read a book in the park before the sun goes down
7. Call or get together with a friend
8. Write a thank you note
9. Organize something
10. Take a long time to cook something extra special
11. Take a day long road trip
12. Get outside and sit somewhere quiet
13. Draw or write a poem
14. Pick or buy flowers and put them on my table
What about you? In what small ways do you pause and enjoy something?
I pause to enjoy coffee and to read in the mornings, and take long hot showers almost daily. Lovely post, Jen.
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making a check list, so I can get the urgent off my plate and into a reasonable time frame
ReplyDeletePot a plant, shop for one, or look at the ones I have.
pet my little creature..she is a cat/dog with sharp nails!!!
go for a motorcycle ride.
drink a beer, wine doesn't work in my stomach.
put a few check marks on the little boxes on my "TO-DO" list (I love to finish things!!!
volunteer for the Nursery at church so I can avoid the sermon, and hold little babies. he-he-he
thanks for letting me share too!
i like your list jen :). one of my favorite things to do just for myself is to go lay in bed with a magazine. i could spend hours doing that!
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